Vanilla Sex: Should We Be Ashamed of Being Bored in Bed?

It may be the least original scent, but everyone loves vanilla … Vanilla sex is conventional sexuality, in other words the good old missionary with no frills or accessories. In Le Monde, Maïa Mazaurette praises this “boring sexuality” as she calls it, or even “sleeping with dad”. It is reminiscent of our collective imagination, our cinema and our series, in which the viewer rarely sees heroes who make love in a bed and are increasingly tied up (Fifty Shades of Gray hello). Yes, the many alternative sexualities that pop culture offers implicitly urge us to constantly push the limits of our imaginations. But in private there seem to be so many […]